I went to see Darren mainly to get help with self-confidence. I also felt like I had built walls around me and was afraid to take first steps and did not really think I could do what I wanted in life. I had also isolated myself from men and had not let anyone close to me in years. I had dealt with a lot of issues due to codependance and needed a boost in confidence to conquer those issues.
I cannot explain how much these sessions with him changed my life! What happened in the first few weeks after our sessions finished was amazing! The best way for me to explain how I felt before and after is that I had walls all around me and they all came down in the first few weeks after our sessions. It felt incredible. I felt like I was able to walk in any direction I wanted without being scared and having nothing holding me back.
I signed up for a design course, and finished that with flying colours. I hadn’t had any design experience in my whole life so I had never had any courage to go for something like that. I also started letting men get closer to me and today I get so much attention from guys and it feels amazing. Before it was like I had a wall there and like I was giving off a vibe that I was closed and that they could sense it, now that is totally gone. I also have lost 30 lbs! That was not really one of my main goals, I feel like it happened very naturally and that my body and mind just balanced itself out and I started to feel more respect for myself and only wanted to put good food in my body. I am also completely different when it comes to communication with others. Before I held back and was afraid of others opinions and had very different reactions towards certain situations because I was so codependent. Today I feel very confident and free when I talk to people. My family and friends are in awe of how much I have changed. They have just watched it happen and cannot believe the difference they see in me.
The most important thing that has happened is that I got the courage to do something that I was so afraid of, that I really thought I would never have the courage to do this ever in my life. This was so huge for me and such an important step in personal growth for me. Music is really important to me and I just wanted to be able to play and sing for my friends. I have always known that I am a talented singer but the fear of others opinions has always stopped me and therefore I have never played or sung for anyone. I have basically always thought about music in the wrong way. It of course should only matter what I think. So recently I recorded a song in a studio. I was able to move through the fear and all of a sudden it was gone. And it went so well and was such a fun and easy experience that I could just do it all day. I cannot explain how important it was for me to push that wall down, because music is my no. 1 passion in life but I feel like I have been holding myself back. I really needed to do this and it feels amazing to do something that you thought you could never do.
I am just blown away by myself. These sessions with Darren helped bring me back to life. I really feel like I can do whatever I want in life, I just need to choose what that will be and go for it! Thank you so much Darren.
